Jewish Dating Mistakes

The Big Jewish Dating No No's

by Marianne Giselle Franks
The Jewish Singles Events & Matchmaking Company

Written on 8/Dec/2011 Contact the author on + 44 (0) 7545635028

Men

Never take a woman out on a date, and then ruin or worse sabotage things by being a silly stupid non thinking man, by blatantly admiring another woman or women in front of your gorgeous date. Then proceed to tell your date how sexy and beautiful the other woman or women are.

More over never take a woman to an event where the act consists of   scantily clad women or worse...Or any club of this nature, (Ladies if a man does these things, it is my opinion he is not serious about you, and has very little respect for you.

Remember men will be nice before sex, they will say and do most anything and after sex this is when you see the real man. However if he is already acting a bit off before you have slept with him... Alarm bells should ring... men normally cool off if they are not interested or have no real care for you, a quality woman only accepts a quality man.

Men... Even the most confident woman will feel a little unnerved by this. Of course one cannot stop a man from looking at another woman or finding her attractive. This is normal human nature, and it is normal for men to admire the female form. Just do not be stupid!

A man   should not be blatantly doing this in front of you, and it is worth re considering him, and dating other men, if he continues in this nature, things may get worse and he could become unfaithful... Of course he could just be a little dense and not thinking. Men can be just plain stupid at times .So it is worth giving a man a second chance... Though if he continues to take you to inappropriate places, which make you feel uneasy dump him immediately if not sooner!

In essence men think... and ladies if you are not feeling good or comfortable... What is the point... in a good relationship you will be made to feel good, certainly never uneasy or uncomfortable or as though you have to compete with the half naked woman in front of you. Ladies if he does this never show you care... keep it to yourself and think carefully what you want for yourself. A fling with a man whom has no respect or a good relationship with a great guy.

Jewish Dating Do's For Men

A man should make a woman feel special the centre of his attraction

Make plans ahead of time... this shows her you are looking forward to seeing her again.

Phone her for no reason... just to tell her you miss her... so romantic!

Tell her how lovely she looks, find out what she likes to do, what interests does she have, what food does she like to eat .Would she like to go and see a show, a movie a play.. A nice romantic afternoon lunch or a romantic walk and buy her flowers always a winner... I suggest baby pink roses.

P.S Compliment her...  A compliment costs nothing making a woman feel good is priceless....

All the above shows he cares...In return the woman will warm to you and come your way.

Ladies

Never tell your man you adore Brad Pitt, or George Clooney, or any other hot and sexy man of this nature. This is a given & believe me all men know this to be true...However they do not need to hear it. Never compare him to another man in front of him... no no and no!

Make him feel special, tell him how cute looking he is, even hot and sexy!

Say thank you when he takes you out, and appreciate all the little things he does, it may be he just waits in his car to you get home safe before he leaves... tell him you appreciate that... cos ladies that is really very nice!

Ask him about his day... and take a real interest in him.

Do not nag a man, this is a big no no and a real turn off for men.

If he does something special for you, tell him how much you adore him for it, but don't go over the top... let him work for it... if he wants you he will chase you.. And come your way... if he does not do that...and you are chasing him... I will tell you straight he has no real interest in you...Find a man whom really appreciates you and makes you feel good, & men you do the same find a woman whom really wants you, for you...

She should want you for you, not your possessions for you; you should want to be with a woman that you know if you lost everything... she would still adore you...

A Thought for Chanukah... Light the Chanukah candles together... tres romantic!